It's kinda disconcerting when Lovie refused to let great grandparents and relatives pick up. Is Lovie developing strangers anxiety?

As Mummy read up more, she begins to understand this is normal stage of growing up. Babies begin to show fear of strangers around 7 - 9 months. Once a friendly and smiley little Lovie, turns a crying baby lately when others wanted to pick her up.

She is assured this stage will pass after much reading. She is determined to let me get close to great grandparents. Brought me to their place to spend an afternoon with them so I can slowly warm up to them.

Tips Mummy has learnt :

- Stay close to your child when new people are around. Infants react more fearfully to strangers when their mothers or caregivers are not close by.

- Show your child that new people are OK. When you greet a stranger in a friendly way, with smiles and a positive tone of voice, children are less likely to feel afraid.

- Give your child time to get used to new surroundings before meeting a stranger.

- Try bringing a familiar toy or stuffed animal for comfort.

- Encourage new people to approach slowly and gently, without immediately touching your child.

- Pay close attention to your baby’s reactions, and respond.

- If your baby cries or looks afraid with a new person, it’s OK to comfort her and try again later.

- Avoid sneaking out on your child when leaving. Although it might seem easier at the time, children may feel confused or betrayed when they realise you’re gone. When leaving your child with someone, tell your child that he will be safe and that you will be back soon.